The Boy Friend for Blogophilia 6.5

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At 1:30 p.m. on a Wednesday a few months ago, I arrived at the aids committee in time for my stint as a volunteer.

“What do you want me to do today, Fred?”

“Bunny balls please.”

As I settled myself on one of the uncomfortable metal chairs around the rectangular table, I said “Hello” to Steve.     

I squeezed my right hand into a latex glove, my fingers complaining at their imprisonment, and grabbed a box of filters. They look like little cotton balls or bunny balls as we’ve nick-named them. Once dumped out onto a pad, I separated them into piles of ten and placed each pile into a 2×2 plastic bag. Later we would collect all the bags and deliver them to the needle exchange, which is part of the organization, on the floor below. Our job is to organize and pack into kits the harm reduction supplies that they distribute to their clients.

Several other volunteers straggled in. George, tall and Black, followed by even tallerDevon, the youngest member of the group, 15 and still in high school. Morgan ran in right after. He offered his time in the hopes this experience would assist him in his job search.

George found a spot opposite me. I’m always astonished that the flimsy metal doesn’t shatter under his bulk. Devon deposited himself at the other end and turned his head toward Steve who was sliding CDs into the player. 

“Steve, what did you bring for our listening pleasure today?”

“Listen.”  Steve commanded.

“Lisa you’re here!” Morgan announced. I looked around. Lisa, petite and blonde, placed the lemon cake she had baked on one of the small tables scattered around the room.

Lemon cake. Yum. My mouth watered at the sight.

Lisa shook her finger. “This is  for break. Don’t touch it until then!” Everyone groaned.

For a while the only sounds were the murmur of our voices catching up since last time and the crinkling of the paper inserts the others folded to also be placed into plastic bags, and in the background Lady Gaga  flowing from the CD player.  Towards the end of the day,  Fred would dump boxes of condoms and snort kits on the table and we would insert these into the appropriate bags.

At about2:30I noticed Sammy wander in.

“Hey Mum.”

“Come here and give me a hug.”  I usually ruffled his long curly hair which I envied as mine, though curly, would never grow so long.

Sammy has had his share of mental and physical problems in the past, but he’s doing better. He has his own apartment and is in university.  Even though we weren’t blood related,  my husband and I had taken him under our wing. Hence he calls me “Mum” and I call him “Sonny”.

He slipped out of his back pack and looked around the table. “It’s  kinda crowded. Guess I’ll sit on the couch.”

“Okay. See you at break. Lisa brought lemon cake.”

Sammy’s eyes lit up. He’s always hungry.  He scooped up a handful of  inserts to fold and settled himself on the sofa across the room. “Hey Steve, did you bring that music?  It sucks” … and he laughed.

Steve lashed back, “Yes I did  and it doesn’t suck.” The rest of us nodded at each other. Those two young men went through a similar routine every week.

Dina’s office door opened and the volunteer coordinator walked out into the centre of the room. She usually kept herself shut in as she claimed our noise level disturbed her concentration. A nice looking young man, about Sammy’s age, followed her.

“Hey guys. Can I have your attention for a minute?  This is Terry and he’ll be volunteering with you today. Fred…” she gestured to the older man with short grey hair, “is our team leader and he’ll get you set up.”

Since there was no room  in our area around the table, Sammy invited Terry to sit with him and he’d show him what to do. Oh yeah. He sure will.  I averted my face to hide my grin.  

“Hi. Terry. I’m Sammy. Welcome to the group.”

“Nice to meet you.  So, what goes on here?” We heard Terry as he looked around the room. “That’s some pretty cool art.”

“Yeah,” Fred explained, “One of the clients paints most of it.”

Terry  stuck his thumb up in approval.

Fred continued, “Did Dina explain what the needle exchange is?”

“Yeah she did. It’s where injection drug users can get clean needles, give in used needles and pick up other gear that they use. It’s pretty cool. She gave me a few pamphlets on harm reduction too.”

Sammy brought Terry a coffee from the kitchen. “Here you go.”

Terry accepted the drink and I could see more questions in his eyes.

“But what are bunny balls?”

Sammy explained. “They’re actually filters ….”

Lisa spoke up. “When I first started here I thought they looked like little bunny balls. It was close to Easter and I had rabbits on the brain. The name stuck. Filters remove bacteria.”

“Thanks very much.” Then Terry sat next to Sammy.

After break, and filled with cake, we sluggishly finished the remaining kits. “Thanks to all of you. You’re a good group and we’re about caught up.” Fred beamed at everyone then bent down, picked up the over flowing bin and placed it by the door with the rest of the supplies to be transferred downstairs.

“Oh look its four o’clock. I gotta go. See you guys next week.” And I dashed out to catch my bus home.


I waited anxiously that evening for Sammy to call, as I knew he would.

 “Hi.” He sounded giddy.

“Hi. Looked like you and Terry had a good time this afternoon.” (I got right to the point)

“Yeah, it was great. He’s at Western too so we compared classes and teachers. Then he started talking about Buddhism which sounds interesting and he plays video games like me.  He’s also involved in an environmental group for preservation of wild life. They are working to preserve the  Pacific Northwest tree octopus and the jackelope. We have a date for coffee on Friday.”  Sammy hadn’t sounded so excited in a very long time.

“That’s Hilaria. You realise those two extinct species you mentioned are internet hoaxes perpetrated by someone named Commander K .

As the weeks went by they talked more, met for coffee. One day Terry visited Sammy to see his stock of video games. I was thankful they were taking it slowly and  getting to know each other.  Sammy had been hurt in the past and I was proud that he had learned his lesson not to jump into the ocean’s cold water with both feet but to take it gradually.

Valentine’s Day was approaching which meant nothing to Sammy. He’s never had a valentine.

“It’s Terry’s birthday Saturday,” Sammy told me one evening.

“What will you get him to celebrate?”

“Oh, is it okay if I get him something? I’ve never given a boy a gift.”

“Well it might be nice. You two have been seeing each other for a couple of months now.  Get something small that you can afford and that he might like. Think about it.”

Sammy, sounding dazed, said good-by and hung up.

This should be interesting. He hadn’t realised that Terry’s birthday was also Valentine’s Day.  

The next night Sammy told me Terry asked to borrow one of  his old games that no longer interested him..  I told him that shouldn’t  be a problem. Though I couldn’t imagine why, since the game was so  out dated. Something’s up.   And I recalled that Terry not only played video games at the highest level but was  a computer geek as well.. Yes something was definitely up.

On the Saturday – February  14— Sammy called in a panic. “We were playing a game together on the computer  and something strange popped up on the screen. I was afraid to open it because I thought it might be a virus. But it looked familiar and I wanted to know what it was. It was puzzling cause the graphics looked like the game  Terry borrowed. But it turned out to be a valentine card from him disguised as my old video game.  Why did he do that? He went off line as soon as I opened it. “

“Oh really?” I turned my mouth away from the phone so he wouldn’t hear my delighted chuckle.

“Well honey he gave you a valentine card. One he designed himself. I think it means he likes you. I knew he caught  my amusement  that time.

“Really? He incorporated my game into a card? That’s awesome. But I’ve never received a valentine card before and Terry never said anything.”

“Maybe he’s shy and doesn’t want to jump into the cold ocean alone either.”

 “Does this mean he likes me?”

“Yes it does and if I were you I’d call him right now.”

We hung up and I burst out laughing.  Sammy may be old enough to go to university but, due to his history, in certain ways he still behaves like a young teen.

I exhaled deeply; a breath  that felt like I had been holding for months. Even if their relationship wouldn’t last forever, it’s his first healthy one. My grin stuck to my face all day. 


Written for

Blogophilia week 6.5 – “Hilaria”

Bonus Points:

(Hard, 2pts): include thePacific Northwesttree octopus (Octopus paxarbolis)

(Easy, 1pt): include a jackelope


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22 Responses to The Boy Friend for Blogophilia 6.5

  1. Wow, bunny balls…that’s a new one to me! Very unique take on this week’s difficult challenge. You did it flawlessly and provided a wonderful opportunity to bring some worthy causes into the spotlight. Admirable harm reduction programs that you explain here. Well done, Sue! HUGS

  2. What a great story! Thanks so much for sharing it. 🙂

  3. Marvin Martian says:

    Very, VERY nice story! I would like to say also that blogophilia is proud to be mentioned in a blog that is involved with HOP ! 8 points Earthling! 🙂

  4. Dave Coon says:

    Laughing at the bunny balls! very awesome story with a really good message in it! 🙂

  5. This reads very smoothly, like a diary. If you made this longer, I’d like the conversations between your MC & Sammy to be broken up a little more ’cause it was a little difficult to know how much time had passed.

    Yup, the bunny balls comment was funny 🙂

    Nice job, Sue 🙂

  6. chuck says:

    There is a lot to be said for the raw and unrequited emotions of youth. Wonderful story

  7. trev says:

    it shows the amount of fun you get being with the other volunteers Sue…
    fooling around like this shows the level of trust and camaraderie you all have with each other…
    but I have to admit I have not seen so many cupid arrows flying around for a long time … lol

    I loved the story line very much.. I was engrossed in the reading… and the vid’s we’er hilarious … great blog girl… loved it.. xxx

  8. Christopher Mitchell (Another Government Employee) says:

    Very well done. I read it earlier and then came back. I like the subtlety of the characters.

  9. Julie Dao says:

    I love this piece! You have such a way with dialogue. And what an amazing cause to support. It’s so important to spread the word about tolerance and acceptance for all.

  10. Feathered Pen says:

    Yep,I wouldn’t want to jump into a cold ocean alone either….but a soothing warm jacuzzi ? I don’t mind enjoying it by myself,LOL!

    Nice message here Sue 🙂 I learned something new today 🙂

  11. joaniethewriter says:

    What a thoughtful an unique Valentine Terry made! What did Sammy do for Terry?Do we get to find out how their friendship developed?

  12. bluerose says:

    how sweet. left me grinning, too 🙂

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